tuning into your PEARL 🦪 frequency

aligning with your creativity to create consistent back to back success for yourself <3 my story as well !!

my definition of the siren may be different than the definition in your head.

my definition of a 𓇼༛ siren ༛𓇼 is a woman who is tapped into her femininity and a woman who is self absorbed. she is someone who purely focused on her art + creativity and from that space she becomes a magnet to everything she adores in life

it’s that energy of being asked out on a date and checking your calendar to see how much time you’ve been spending with your artistic craft and telling your date you can meet up once you have finished the project ༛🐚✧

but he waits because he is magnetized to you ༛༛🪽♡ and he knows it’s worth it.

a siren is not someone who thinks she is better than everyone. a siren is not a man hater. a siren is just interested more in her creativity than love.

she knows that love is a natural byproduct and will always be a part of her life but it’s not something she has to obsess over and think about all of the time.

a siren is someone who adorns herself in whatever makes her feel most beautiful.

a siren puts her beauty + art front and center

and trusts that everything else is going to find it’s spot but she knows she does not have to worry herself about that.

a siren loves love….but she is someone who is in a relationship to her art and depending on how in-love with her art she feels will be dependent on how in-love she feels in her love life.

a siren knows that creativity + romantic love are intertwined and linked together ♾️

a 𓇼 siren 𓇼 knows that when she is anxious about her art and lacking clarity on her project…she starts to feel 1 foot in to her relationship and 1 foot out.

a siren being confused and lacking clarity is the worst thing for a siren to feel.

and because of that, she chooses her path forward with everything she has. she knows she cannot get this wrong. she knows she can’t mess it up. she knows that if she just puts her artistic passions to the forefront of her life that everything else has beautiful way of working itself out.

the more obsessive she becomes over her art…

the more money flies into her reality…

the more she has 2 feet IN to her relationship…

the less she worries about anything else in life because her mind is so consumed with her artistic passions.

a siren’s main duty in life is to follow her creative pursuits and put beauty to the forefront of her identity.

beauty + art 💕🎨

and everything else will come as second nature.

the romantic love. the money. the success.

the siren does not follow beauty standards. she could care less. she isn’t interested in trends.

she curates her own aesthetic and doesn’t stop until she feels 10/10 obsessed with the way that she curates beauty.

from the way she decorates the corners in her home.

from the way she plates her food and the recipes she makes.

from the clothes she wears at home to the clothes she wears when she leaves the house.

she makes everything beautiful because beauty is her 2nd purpose outside of art + creativity.

although it really is all 1 in the same isn’t it (:

the siren is amazing at curating and cultivating little worlds. little worlds for her to live in and little worlds for others to enter into.

she embodies the energy of vibes to make money. she doesn’t think herself into making more money. she doesn’t lay out plans and go knees deep into structure.

she just obsesses over her art and puts it out into the world and in the background she is focused on making her home, her food, and her body feel beautiful.

🪽 PEARL FREQUENCY 🪽

definition: consistent success because of aligned creativity and self trust.

you came here to receive success back to back to back 𖦹

success should always be finding you and your only job is to open up to it and allow it to come into your physical 3d reality.

success is trying to find you in hardships. success is trying to find you when you are spiraling out. success is trying to find you when you are pmsing. success is trying to find you when you are feeling down and lacking vision.

your negative mood…

your negative life experience…

is NEVER blocking success or abundance.

so what is then?

your belief that a bad mood or a negative life experience is in-between you + success.

no self trust - you’re shooting for the stars but haven’t proven to yourself that you can get the basics down ♡

self trust is one of the main keys between you and your abundance that is trying to enter your reality.

because when you have self trust you have audacity.

and audacity is what is needed for creating a life you obsess over.

a way to break your self trust: NOT follow through on your own word + promises. you make tooooo big of promises to yourself. you aim outside of what you are ready for or have no proof to back up what you’re calling in.

i am still 1000000% encouraging you to dream big. but i actually want you to create major success for yourself. any young pop manifestation coach will tell you to aim big! dream bigger! you can have everything you want! (and yes i still agree with premise).

but i also know how creating too big of promises can shoot you in the foot when you haven’t proved to yourself you can make smaller goals happen for yourself.

you have to have self trust to receive back to back to back success <3

which means practice making SMALLER promises to yourself, achieve it, then move up the scale 🤩

because if you’re telling yourself you’re going to be famous (which i love by the way) but then shutting down your entire business because you get hate comments…

catch my drift? you have go to set up forrrr success so that success isn’t getting blocked by your lack of belief in self or getting blocked because you’re continuing to call in things that are too big for you to handle ♡

you’re calling in 20 paid clients but have yet to sign 1.

call in 1 client. achieve that. feel that achievement in that then call in 3 next round. achieve that. feel the achievement in that. then call in 5 next round. 🌀 you have to build up your spiral but once you get past the initial building phases it get easier and easier and the spiral picks up so much speed!

being aligned in your creativity as a siren

you are not meant to look like anyone else. you are not meant to look at how someone else is doing it and then take that on.

you came here to be a channel and understand the unique way you operate.

your timeline is meant to be unique.

your path is meant to be unique.

the minute you look to someone else and take on what they are succeeding in…you won’t find much success for yourself.

🔮 a siren is a channel 🔮 and to find alignment in your creativity you must throw spaghetti on the wall…see what sticks…see what bites tastes good…and continue to refine.

the important part of this process: figuring out what bites tastes the best and feel the best in your body.

there are times when you are going to have intense resistance to something and that resistance may just be your greatest medicine…

for example ~ you say you want social media fame. you feel resistance to showing up online. see what i am saying?

just because something feels uncomfortable does not equate to it being the wrong path.

take romantic love for example.

you will run into conflict.

conflict feels uncomfortable.

but just because you’re in a moment of conflict and feel uncomfortable does not mean that the relationship is wrong ♡

different ways to find alignment in your artistic passions:

♥︎1) ask yourself what you are doing because you feel good at it. are you JUST doing this because you’re good at it? (that’s ok because usually this is the bridge before we lean deeper into our obsessions).

and also doing something you are good at to make money really brings up that self trust! you make money because you are good at ____ and it proves to yourself you can do what you put your mind to.

so you don’t need to quit. in fact, please don’t. just ask yourself if you are only doing _____ because you are good at it and it brings you money.

self awareness is key here.

♥︎2) are you too scattered right now and all over the place? creative alignment takes place when you remain focused on 1 thing at a time.

i teach my clients to remain focused on 1 goal and bring in momentum on that before pivoting and switching up or adding yet another project on their plate.

why? because you build self trust. if you can’t find success with 1 project why would you be successful for the next thing?

today i was reading one of my favorite books, “Psycho-Cybernetics” by Maxwell Maltz.

i shit you not….this is the EXACT page i turned to with a quote reading,

“you can have many goals, but concentrating on just one at a time will help you accomplish far more than attempting to focus on many at once. get the fire of desire started within being single-minded about one goal and the flame will naturally spread to the others without you forcing it”

(i’ve been talking a lot about this inside my membership, upward spiral so i thought it was so timely when i turned to that exact page in the book today).

if i know anything about energy + the law of attraction i know this statement is true.

you have to trust that you still get what you want in life by removing focus from it and often that is what is needed especially when you’ve been hammering into certain ideas and they start to make you anxious because it’s not happening yet.

★ choose to focus on 1 thing you have the most belief in or feel it would be the easiest to create success from. what would give you the most relief? (even if it’s not the thing you are most passionate about at the moment but choose something that will feel really good for it to happen)

★ put it into motion 𖦹 give it your alllllll.

★ ask youself what you would be satisfied with?

★ for the next 30-60-90 days only make this ONE thing happen!

★ prove to yourself you can do it!

★ then go on to the next thing ♡

★★★★ if you are already successful in your creative pursuits then it would look different for you because you already have mometum behind your belief in self, you have self trust, and so forth. so yes concentraing on 1 thing at a time is still helpful and - you can pivot a little more ★★★★

♥︎3)to find back to back success, tap into your pearl frequency, because you are aligned in your creative pursuits ⇢ you must undertsand that the voice of your inner being is trying its best to dominate your gremlin inner voice but it won’t be able to if you’re not helping your inner being out and always siding with your gremlin.

we all have 2 inner voices.

inner being (intuition, god self, higher self).

gremlin (ego, negative state of mind, inner contradictor).

when you get started on a creative pursuit that lights you up….

the person who makes it is the person who has positively influenced their-self to make it.

it sounds so obvious but do you take this seriously?

are you able to sit down and blog for 10 minutes straight without that inner contradictor coming in?

are you able to sit down and doodle + paint un-interrupted before you get in your own way and call it silly, stupid, or childish?

your MiND is going to rule every single thing in your life life.

if you have really strong inner contradicting thoughts you haveeee to take

meditation seriously

and

morning pages seriously (writing 3 full journal pages every single day you wake up. right when you wake up. even if you write the same sentence over and over again. the point is this process moves you out of your ego into your inner flow…this concept is made up by Julia Cameron. look up the process!).

The Abraham Hicks Philosophy of Genius

• It’s about Focus: Genius is not a genetic lottery. It is the result of applying the Law of Attraction through consistent, undivided attention and imagination. [1, 2, 3]

• You are a Creator: Because everyone has the ability to direct their thoughts, everyone has the capacity for genius. [1]

• Infinite Intelligence: When you focus on a specific subject without resistance, you tap into “Source Energy” (or infinite intelligence) to bring brilliant ideas into physical reality. [1, 2]

to circle back to the quote i posted about above from Maxwell Maltz….allow yourself to focus on 1 thing…1 subject…and bring it to LIFEEEEEE 🌞

there is an adversary to “niching down” but i believe niching down allows your brain to focus 🔎 you don’t need to niche down on 1 subject for the rest of your life but i feel it’s important if you do want to propel in a said area of life.

i love was Alex Hormozi shares on this ~ he always quotes:

“Rogan talks about aliens, comedy, fighting, politics, bio-hacking. The Rock has WWE, movies, football, fitness, tequila. I like business, philosophy, fitness, comedy, & utilitarianism. You don't pick your niche. You are your niche. Whats yours?”

Hormozi’s point being….you don’t single handedly decide on a subject but you allow your personal interests consume you 🤩 and then you just continue to follow the passion and obsession of your….passions and obsessions.

and once you feel clear on your passions choose something to dial into…(if you’re not successful yet).

give it some momentum. allow yourself to be recognized within that subject!

reminder - you do NOT have to teach because everyone else is teaching. you do not have to be a coach because everyone else is a coach. you do not have to talk about health and wellness because everyone else is talking about that.

what the fuck lights YOU up? what would you talk about for hours and hours? maybe you are more introverted and don’t really want to “talk” on subjects. you would rather crochet your way to china. you would rather put your nose in back to back literary fiction books and grow your already massive brain.

even if you don’t want to talk about something but you want to be successful from your craft you either have to force yourself to talk about it or allow your art to speak for you (by splattering it all over the internet). and even better yet - combining the two.

but talking on the internet becomes easy when you are talking about the things you are obsessed with….and when you magnetize people you would be best friends with in real life…like imagine talking to an audience of everyone you would consider your best friend about the things you are obsessed with? who wouldn’t love that?

you have to trust that your people are out there 🤍

my personal path with finding creative alignment (: it never was any “decisions” being made. it was just natural evolution + constant refinement.

a HUGE piece of finding creative alignment for me is having multiple streams of income !! 🤩 I HAVE SIX !!! 🤩

i built up each stream ♡༛💕 i did not start all of them at the same time. i practiced what i preached above…i found success with each income stream and i taught myself how to keep it consistent (:

not all of my streams are “on” all of the time. i can pick and choose which ones i am going to pour focus into knowing i will receive money back. some are on all the time though ✧🤩

the reason i believe in having multiple income streams is because then you will neverrr stress your art to make it or you’ll never neeeeed your art to financially support you. if you do that you’ll end up hating your art.

i was SO intentional about turning on paid subscriptions here. i waited 2 years. i wanted others to feel my words. i wanted to prove to myself i can consistently write.

i also never wanted to feel like i “had” to get paid subscribers to pay my bills. i wanted my art to feel like art and not this thing i am depending on to financially support me.

same with my business honestly! if my instagram + substack shut down tomorrow i would still be able to financially support myself.

a huuuuuge piece of finding my creative alignment is embodiment. i wanted to prove to myself i could do what i put my mind to. i don’t feel i’ve ever launched anything prematurely. i’ve rarely struggled with imposter syndrome because i build up my success brick by brick. what would i feel like an imposter over? i’ve put in so much work and have the proof to back me up.

i have been holding my group membership UPWARD SPiRAL for almost ONE YEAR omfg!!!!!! i want to dedicate an entire article or series on hosting + energetically holding a membership because it’s been quite the journey. and i would have never ever been able to hold something like UPWARD SPiRAL a few years ago.

to energetically hold a group membership takes emotional regulation in a way i have never quite experienced. romantic love is different.

the easy part is the members (: the cutest girls ever. seriously. i’ve only had 1 little weird interaction in the full year.

the hard part is all of the behind the scenes of what it means to hold a membership. i think the hardest part is all of the decision making 🫠😹 i’ve worked with a mentor off and on during UPWARD SPiRAL and she helped me a lot!! but the greater part of it i have been alone. i do think i will write more specifically on holding group membership and group spaces in general for my paid subscribers here (: so if you’re interested on this subject make sure you’re a paying subscriber :D

i did not randomly launch my group membership, UPWARD SPiRAL over night. UPWARD SPiRAL was birthed out of a continuation of following little nudges throughout the past decade.

i’ve been holding groups of women since college when i was a Rho Gamma for my sorority. I held a group of 50 girls going through sorority recruitment and was a mentor to them.

and throughout college i was a mentor for youth although that was not my zone of genius lol. something sparked for me when i had the chance to mentor girls who were about 1-2 years younger than me.

when it got to my actual business i started offering free low stakes fun easy groups. i would fill it with 20 or 50 people and it would be sooo fun! pop up groups.

every time i got the inspo i would put something out! one time i held a group of 50 women and we all sent sexy selfies to each other for a month lol. that was the focus of the group ! everyone was obsessed and so was i (:

i’ve held multiple masterminds 2019-2021 era where i had 5 women at a time guiding and mentoring them (i held multiple masterminds). so not a big group but deeeeep inner work and psychic business guidance plus deep psychic work. i guided these women 1:1 and i did group coaching with them.

then in 2023 i shifted gears into more energetic based guidance purely focusing in on law of attraction/manifestation so i took on VERY low tier/donation based spaces and held 6 women for about a year - after charging thousands to work with me in the 2019-2021 era. i went to donation based! crazy right? - well it’s because i needed to build back up my SELF TRUST and teach something that was my passion and not just what i was good at (business coaching in the past). i was aligning my life as well. i didn’t just want to be an energetics teacher and not be embodied in it. so i practiced what i preached while i guided women on a donation base scale for a whole year. i aligned the shit out of my own life. i built up momentum on my success so i could finally make the claim i financially support myself from my passions consistentlyyyy. not just a few thousand here and there…but consistent income from my gifts. then once i was able to prove to myself i could create consistent income from my gifts for 1 full year ~ i launched UPWARD SPiRAL after (: UPWARD SPiRAL was birthed because i wanted to teach women how to be consistent in their manifestations. i felt ready because i had held a healthy in-love 6 year relationship + i had been making consistent money from my gifts for 1 year. i felt consistent in every area of my life !! my health, working out, my confidence, my love life, and my finances.

you know how many business coaches i know who have trouble signing on ONE client ㋡😫 seriously NOOOO shade and i never want to make someone feel bad but i do feel like it’s important to offer what you personally feel mastered in….so make your business successful FIRST then become a business coach… and while you do that ~ launch something different!

i’ve held a group on being a TOM FOOL….the purpose of the group was to bring out your inner weirdo who turns people off….. i’m not joking.

i’ve done pop ups on romantic love…on being a princess….and so much more!

i’ve even hosted book clubs (:

my easy success comes from my ability to adapt, shift, evolve, ANNNND prove to myself i have what it takes to not only create quick success but KEEP IT COMING! and to me, this is what an embodied leader is. not to be cheesy but i am an embodied leader.

on top of all of that experience i have had a looooot of long term clients. i’ve had people working with me off and on since 2017.

but i feel i thrive being 1:many (:

and recently i held a group of FOUR HUNDRED WOMEN !!!!!!! it did happen at a bad time for me when i was in the middle of a home move to an island and i had back to back to back family trauma happen. like deaths etc. so if you were in that group that was not my best work. but holding 400 women while trauma was happening all around me was a really incredible experience for me. although i didn’t show up how exactly i wanted to…i still showed up. i give myself a C+ for holding 400 people. but mix in a home move PLUS outside trauma i give myself an A+ because i know many people who would have just put the group on pause. but i showed up! i honored my promise.

all of this to say….i’ve really continued to refine and be naturally led. i prove to myself i can do it. and not only just “do it” but i prove to myself i can keep it coming.

i never said to myself “i want to hold group spaces” it was honestly a natural part of my design…it just happened.

you don’t have an excuse to not be successful. i know that sounds harsh. you just need to think outside of the box. you need to not be so regimented in your approach. there is no reason that you cannot make money RIGHT NOW 🪽💸

listen, if my life was a mess i would not be “life coaching” but i would make a shit ton of art and sell it. which i have 😹 i was going through a really fun creative awakening chapter but i was also traveling and in the middle of so many different homes. i felt insecure and still anxiously attached in my relationship. but i was really good at doing collage art…..so guess what i did? i didn’t mentor but i sold a shit ton of collage art and made thousands from that 🤣 it was SOOOOO FUN !!!!!!

you’re not going to feel confident putting something out into the world if you’re not embodied in it. you need self trust to manifest and become successful. because self trust gives you audacity. self trust + audacity + ability to only listen to your inner being’s voice!!! that’s all you need!

just put out FUNNNN EASSSSY things into the world! the internet 👾 is truly your oyster. i am so obsessed with the internet. i have so much fun! and i want you to as well!

1)what are you in embodied in RIGHT now

2)what fun way can you put this out into the world (even if it’s free or donation based)

orrrrrr

3)what is something you can do that is just so fun that has nothing to do with coaching, mentoring, or teaching…something that is so outside of the box from your normal buuut you are very familiar with it. slap a price tag on it(or do it for free) and prove to yourself you can do what you put your mind to.

and look - you don’t need to live my path lol. i know you know that. you don’t need to hold groups of people. you don’t need to be a teacher. i just share to inspire something within you…YOU know what is calling you.

if you become a paying subscriber to my substack i’ve already set in motion 𖦹🌀𖦹 ༛that your life is going to change drastically. that you will naturally follow your soul’s path and because of you becoming obsessed with your art….your love life will also grow into a beautiful blossoming ♡༛༛💕 this article is free today but it will become paid. and i will be writing on everything i know about hosting + holding a membership and group spaces!!!

i’m in my writing era now 🤓 i’ve been consistently writing on substack since 2023. although i’ve been writing my whole life! i feel a newbie in this territory. but i am so excited to see what happens with me taking my path as a writer SERIOUUUUUSSS but in the most fun way ever (duh).

in love + creative bliss,

𓇼 SAMMi ༛